January 20 — Pondering the Meaning of Life!
Are we here to pursue happiness and make our dreams come true? What does happiness even mean? Is it like biting into wonderful home-made Swiss Chocolate? Or is it more like making wonderful home-made Swiss Chocolate for others to enjoy?
My YPO Forum-friend, Sandra, and I had this very debate next to a fireplace on a cold, wet winter evening. It was one of the most open and vulnerable conversations I’ve had in years. I told Sandra:
“I want to leave my mark. I want my kids to remember me for something concrete. Some kind of timeless achievement. A legacy. That’s why I wrote a book. I wanted them to be able to pick up something I published, see my name on the cover and feel proud of me. Even after I’m gone, they’ll have a reminder.”
I felt very emotional, just thinking about it. But Sandra stopped me.
“What do they want?”
“What?”
“Have you asked your kids if they want to remember you by seeing your name on the cover of a book? Or by thinking about your legacy? I bet they’re already proud of you. They don’t care about the future. They’re only interested in the here and now.”
Sandra’s plain sailing questions left me dumbfounded. I had no coherent answer. I knew she was right.
But I published my book either way.
The Gift of Crisis!
January 31 — BREXIT Begins and COVID Shows Up in Italy
The UK formally withdraws from the European Union. All I can think is, “How did this happen?” It’s too crazy to explain.
Meanwhile, Italy confirmed its first two cases of COVID. How did COVID get from Wuhan Province to Italy? Is Europe safe?